You can go to the Probate and Family Court in the county where you live or to the Probate and Family Court in the county where the other parent lives. You need to file a form called a "complaint."
The complaint you file depends on if you are married to the other parent.
If you are married to the other parent
You can ask the court for a custody order by filing:
- a Complaint for Divorce if you want to divorce your spouse. On the complaint form there is a box you can check to ask for custody of your child.
- a Complaint for Separate Support if you live apart from your spouse or you want to live apart from your spouse and stay married. On the complaint form there is a box you can check to ask for custody of your child.
If you are not married to the other parent
Your child needs to have a legal father before the court can decide custody.
- If your child has a legal father, file a Complaint for Custody – Support - Parenting Time.
- If your child does not have a legal father, file a Complaint to Establish Paternity.
Complaint for Custody-Support-Parenting Time
Use this form to ask the court for custody if your child has a legal father. There is a box on the form you can check to ask for custody of your child.
File a Complaint for Custody - Support - Parenting Time if:
- you and the father signed a Voluntary Acknowledgement of Parentage or
- there is a court judgment that he is the father.
See Complaint for Custody-Support-Parenting Time – Filing a Case
Complaint to Establish Paternity to ask the court for custody
File a Complaint to Establish Paternity to ask the court to name your child’s legal father. At the same time you can check the box to ask for custody of your child. First, the court has to decide who the legal father is. After that, the court will decide custody.
File a Complaint to Establish Paternity if:
- the father’s name is not on your child’s birth certificate; and
- there is no court judgment that he is the father.
See Establishing Paternity in Court.
Remember
If you are the mother and there is no court order about custody, you have sole legal and physical custody. See Who has Custody?